First dialog with another girl

Girl (6.5) met in the cinema (she was sitting there with 3 gfriends), she wrote me first:

2011.04.24 pm 10:09, Girl: where a u ?
2011.04.24 pm 10:09, Girl: kkk
2011.04.24 pm 10:37, you : hey just arrived home! u r still watching movie?)
2011.04.24 pm 10:41, Girl: i cant see . movie!
2011.04.24 pm 10:41, Girl: sorry i cant speak english just a little
2011.04.24 pm 10:42, Girl: kkk
2011.04.24 pm 10:43, Girl: friends go to the home . i just wait for together
2011.04.24 pm 10:46, you : ur english is not bad! like my korean)))
2011.04.24 pm 10:49, Girl: thx ~~>▽<a u still station?
2011.04.24 pm 10:53, you : no, i was wrong, ur eng is sooo bad! i already said i am at home)
2011.04.24 pm 10:55, Girl: i know ! eng very difficult ~ but very funny !
2011.04.24 pm 10:55, Girl: T_T
2011.04.24 pm 10:55, you : haha funny girl:-)
2011.04.24 pm 10:56, Girl: i know ~ kk please  understand me..... my english ....
2011.04.24 pm 10:56, Girl: 알려주세요 영어 ^_^
2011.04.24 pm 11:00, you : hmm, u wanna take lessons from me?)
2011.04.24 pm 11:03, Girl: joke kk
2011.04.24 pm 11:03, Girl: 어디살아요?
2011.04.24 pm 11:07, you : yongtong
2011.04.24 pm 11:07, you : and u?
2011.04.24 pm 11:15, Girl: oh yongtong ~ i live nearby
2011.04.24 pm 11:16, Girl: mang po
2011.04.24 pm 11:17, Girl: why did you come to korea?
2011.04.24 pm 11:24, you : u r so close neighbor! i can see u from my window!)
2011.04.24 pm 11:25, you : i work here! do u work?
2011.04.24 pm 11:28, Girl: kkk u funny too. u same me ~ i work here ~
2011.04.24 pm 11:32, you : 영화관어서 일해요?)
2011.04.24 pm 11:33, Girl: ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
2011.04.24 pm 11:33, Girl: No!!!
2011.04.24 pm 11:35, Girl: company attend
2011.04.24 pm 11:37, you :  business lady hehe)
2011.04.24 pm 11:43, you : i am going to sleep, good night!
2011.04.24 pm 11:55, Girl: good night :)

Trying to open the girl and tease a bit at the same time

The girl, ~6, last girl met by me on Suwon yok last Sunday, working in Sam*g.

2011.04.25 pm 04:04, you : hi samsung girl! working hard and smart?)
2011.04.25 pm 04:40, Girl: hiyes just working hard 
2011.04.25 pm 04:53, you : don't try so hard lol! get life!)
2011.04.25 pm 04:58, Girl: lol? what is it? im not that good at English 
2011.04.25 pm 05:05, you : lol=laughing out loudly
2011.04.25 pm 05:06, you : i thought all samsung workers know english very well..
2011.04.25 pm 05:16, Girl: kk maybe im an exception sorry kkkkkkk
2011.04.25 pm 05:29, you : i can exchange my english lessons for food)
2011.04.25 pm 05:38, Girl: kkkkkk i'll think about your offer if you treat me kkkkkkkkkk im kidding kk
2011.04.25 pm 05:40, you : haha don't think too much, english for food is in large demand in korea!
2011.04.25 pm 05:47, Girl: i know kkk but im an exception too! kkk its difficult to chat in english 2011.04.25 pm 05:49, you : i prefer to talk also))
2011.04.25 pm 05:54, Girl: ))  is this smile????
2011.04.25 pm 05:55, you : yes)) u also need lessons for chatting lol
2011.04.25 pm 06:09, Girl: kkk im not used to using emoticons like ) or lol .... and so on      too hard for me 2011.04.25 pm 06:10, you : yeah, u use only kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk)
2011.04.25 pm 06:12, Girl: this is korean style
do u have emoticon application in your phone?
2011.04.25 pm 06:47, you : no, that's why i prefer to talk and show smile on my face))
Analysis: not bad, except my last phrase - I repeated same stuff again (the goal was to make her ask about date) and it was not funny. I could add some joke when she said again about the exception, but I missed that point during conversation. Probably I was too obsessive with my "lessons", but this was kind of teasing.

Hard trying not to be Geeky being Cocky

Girl G - Canadian girl, 28 years old, met at dating website, ~7 (by photoes)

2011.04.25
2011.04.25 am 09:19, you : hi Girl G~ how are you?
2011.04.25 am 10:56, Girl G : great thanks and you?
2011.04.25 am 11:28, you : good - i am working^^
2011.04.25 pm 12:46, Girl G : me too maybe we can talk later?
2011.04.25 pm 01:11, you : 100 percent, we can;)
2011.04.25 pm 01:35, Girl G : perfect i will talk to u later
2011.04.25 pm 01:45, you : wonderful, if i have time i will call u
2011.04.25 pm 02:57, Girl G : perfect what keeps you so busy?
2011.04.25 pm 03:35, you : secret
2011.04.25 pm 04:41, Girl G : oh oh a wife and three kids
2011.04.25 pm 04:42, you : very smart girl;) - three wifes and one kid
2011.04.25 pm 04:43, Girl G : you must be a busy man
2011.04.25 pm 04:53, you : yes, but since u really want, I'll find time to meet u this year
2011.04.25 pm 04:59, Girl G : this year?!! wow sir you are too good to me
2011.04.25 pm 05:03, you : i am too good to u, so i will wear a helmet for our date
2011.04.25 pm 05:31, Girl G : helmet?
2011.04.25 pm 06:23, you : did you hear about radioactive rain tomorrow?
2011.04.25 pm 06:26, Girl G : no i did not thank u for telling me wear your radioactive suit tomorrow
2011.04.25 pm 07:03, you : u want wear it? but it is just L man size. isn't it too small for you?
2011.04.25 pm 07:23, Girl G : i think you might be flattring yourself hehe

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2011.04.25 pm 04:41, Girl G : oh oh a wife and three kids
I STARTED TO PLAY, BUT ACTUALLY IT MEANS I AM A LITTLE BIT DISAPPOINTED OF YOUR PROUD AND DON'T WANT TO LOSE STATUS SO EASY
2011.04.25 pm 04:43, Girl G : you must be a busy man
YOUR JOKE WAS TOO TRIVIAL
2011.04.25 pm 04:59, Girl G : this year?!! wow sir you are too good to me
I DON'T WANT TO PLAY YOUR GAME - I AM HIGH STATUS
2011.04.25 pm 05:03, you : i am too good to u, so i will wear a helmet for our date
//! MY GREAT FAIL - I SHOULD CHANGE "to u" => "for u" OTHERWISE - OUT OF BLUE !//
2011.04.25 pm 06:26, Girl G : no i did not thank u for telling me wear your radioactive suit tomorrow
YOU WANT TO ENTERTAIN ME? AND I WANT TO LAUGH AT YOU
2011.04.25 pm 07:23, Girl G : i think you might be flattring yourself hehe
YOU PLAY NOT ENOUGH GOOD FOR ME

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What was bad:
I think fail with not changing "to u" => "for u" was really important - joke became out of blue and GEEKY.
I tried to play high status from the beginning but my cocky jokes didn't have sufficient soil.
Not enough fun in the beginning...

Some girl which disappeared long time ago, wrote to me again

2011.04.21 pm 01:45, Girl * : 마이클
2011.04.21 pm 01:46, you : hey
2011.04.21 pm 01:47, Girl * : ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
2011.04.21 pm 01:47, Girl * : 모해요
2011.04.21 pm 01:48, you : i forgot korean
2011.04.21 pm 01:50, you : speak english!
2011.04.21 pm 01:51, Girl * : ㅋㅋㅋ
2011.04.21 pm 01:51, Girl * : What are you doing
2011.04.21 pm 01:51, Girl * : Are you stay company?
2011.04.21 pm 01:53, you : u ask so many questions... i didn't know u r such a curious girl!
2011.04.21 pm 01:55, Girl * : Why ....
2011.04.21 pm 01:55, Girl * : Do you hate me?
2011.04.21 pm 01:56, you : haha u want me to punish u?)
2011.04.21 pm 01:57, Girl * : No ...
2011.04.21 pm 01:57, Girl * : I dont want
2011.04.21 pm 01:57, Girl * : ㅜㅠ
2011.04.21 pm 01:58, Girl * : I just worried about you
2011.04.21 pm 01:58, Girl * : I i just wonder!!
2011.04.21 pm 01:58, Girl * : Kkkk
2011.04.21 pm 01:59, Girl * : Everything good?
2011.04.21 pm 02:07, you : u r so concerned about me... i start to worry about that)
2011.04.21 pm 03:52, Girl * : Fine so you dont want concern. Right?
2011.04.21 pm 03:59, you : i always concern about myself
2011.04.21 pm 04:01, Girl * : Okay
2011.04.21 pm 04:02, Girl * : I will never connect you again.
2011.04.21 pm 04:05, you * : never say never;)

Was I too rude to her?

Approaching a girl with the guy.

While Tim has been opening 2 girls in the cinema, I noticed a couple moving from the counter and taking a seat. The guy from that couple sent indicators of interest to us, he smiled and gestured. When they sat down, he showed me a big finger, as he appreciated me. I smiled and showed him back the same, not looking at his girl. At this moment the girl who was between us, bowed her body (moving it to my visibility area so I could detect her) and said smth like:
Girl: "What?"
Me (at that moment first time looking at her): "Handsome guy!" [pointing to her friend]
Girl: "What? I didn't get it"
Me: "Your boyfriend is very handsome!"
Girl (embarassed): "He is not my bf, just a friend!"
Me (approaching her being calm, gentle and reserved): "Your English is really good! Where did you study it?"
Then there was some dialog which I don't remember. I'd like to point out that during speaking, especially in the beginning, I was talking directly to the guy, moving my focus only to him. This action made him feeling secure (like his girl is not my goal), as he just dropped out from the conversation (he didn't know English). Then Igor joined us with the question "What do u think, which style is better?" I had to focus on Igor and discuss the style topic, saying that Tim is a designer, he made some coursework in his university by choosing clothes to Igor & me, so could the girl tell us which style is better, as we are gathering opinions before Tim can give his work to his professor. Guy immediately said that he likes Igor's jacket, while the girl pointed on me. I felt that the atmosphere started being nervous, and said that we need to go and told the girl - how about exchanging e-mails so we can discuss that topic in future? She said she doesn't have a business card, so I told her to exchange the phone numbers and gave her my phone. At that moment her guy understood that smth is going wrong and started pushing my phone from her. Suddenly she grabbed my phone and started entering the digits, the guy put his head in his hands in a very poor gesture. She typed the digits and even called to her phone, to make sure she knows my number.
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What could be done better:
1. When taking her phone number, I said first about exchanging emails for discussing that topic. Bad! My old mistake, BUT: the guy was sitting near, I didn't want directly to ask her phone number, it would be too impudent, so would feel very uncomfortable about that (even he is not her bf).
2. When Igor joined us, he brought completely a new topic and I had to involve him and switch the current topic. I think it's not good, as when person outside approaches already opened set, he breaks already created dynamics and the person who opened the set and is already inside, has to introduce his friend, change the topic and start from the beginning. I remember, I did several mistakes like that, when I was telling smth to a girl which was opened by Tim and what I was telling was not good (I was outside and not connected). My suggestion is that person who opened girl/set stays there alone. His friend can join him, only if the leader says smth like: "Let me introduce my friend to you!" or anything else involving his friend by himself.

Tunning Funny&Cocky1 - Trying to approach a girl from messanger

Girl F - (saw only at messanger photo) hot girl that I don't know, 7-8

Last time mostly I am trying to tune Funny&Cocky.
It seems to me that mine and Tima's game is not enough cocky.
At least, most of DeAngelo examples are more rude but we are usually too soft with a girl.

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you [8:53 AM]:
Hi Girl F! How are you?
Girl F [9:07 AM]:
hello.
I'm sorry but do you know me?
you [9:10 AM]:
actually I know your mom and she asked me to approach you cause you need a lot of help
Girl F [9:11 AM]:
my mom?
what she's name?
you [9:11 AM]:
poor girl, you even forgot your mom's name?
but don't worry the same could happen with many people
Girl F [9:14 AM]:
um..
she's name jong young Lee?
you [9:19 AM]:
now this is not the main thing. you just need a rest
Girl F [9:19 AM]:
I think you confused people.
I don't understand your talk
you [9:26 AM]:
it is ok that you don't understand my talk
Girl F [9:30 AM]:
You Know What's her name?
you [9:32 AM]:
you are still trying to remember the name of your mom?
Girl F [9:32 AM]:
I know she's name.
you [9:32 AM]:
that's great! do you remember her face?
Girl F [9:35 AM]:
I want to make sure that the name of the person is same with the person That I know
you [9:37 AM]:
don't worry so much - you have only 1 mom, you could be sure
Girl F [9:38 AM]:
you said you know my mom
so please say my mom's name
you [9:39 AM]:
ok: "your mom's name"
Girl F [9:40 AM]:
Are you kidding me right now?
You can not tell why the name?
you [9:44 AM]:
is it a test for me? ok, what will I get if I pass it?
Girl F [9:45 AM]:
If you passed, I trust your talk.
you [9:53 AM]:
ok, but it is not enough. how about cleaning my room?
Girl F [9:54 AM]:
You're kidding me.
Do not talk to me
you [9:57 AM]:
you have bad time now. wish you'll feel better

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Second phrase I got from DeAngelo...
Anyway, was I enough jerk? Maybe, I am scared of it a little bit trying to get balance...
Idea was to make her feeling discomfort, but problem is in tunning of it...
Anyway, according to DeAngelo we should lout girl and try to make fun of her instead of just entertaining...
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What weak points do you see here?

Cont. of conversation with hot Girl C trying to get her for the date

Girl C: hot girl, rather tall, 7-8

2011.04.08
2011.04.08 am 08:32, you : wake up?
2011.04.08 am 09:01, Girl C: i'm going to school ^^*
2011.04.08 am 09:03, you : i need some practise in Korean. can you help me?
2011.04.08 am 09:04, Girl C: oh,i can ^^
2011.04.08 am 09:04, you : i will call you now. please try to understand what i say;)
2011.04.08 am 09:05, Girl C: ok

// Called to her, invited for the date in Korean but she told she is busy //

2011.04.08 am 09:21, Girl C: sorry, , have a nice day ^^
2011.04.08 am 09:22, you : no, it was very funny! did you really understand me?
2011.04.08 am 09:24, Girl C: yes!! your pronunciation(?) is good!!
2011.04.08 am 09:57, you : thank you, perfect woman;)

2011.04.10
2011.04.10 am 10:18, you : do you know how is a perfect woman with rocket being?
2011.04.10 pm 07:03, Girl C: now i saw a message
2011.04.10 pm 07:20, you : you are really fast i expected your answer next month. i hope we'll have a cup of tea before 2020
2011.04.10 pm 07:44, Girl C: no,before 2015 ^^
2011.04.10 pm 11:03, you : ok, let's make as you want. how about 31st of december 2014 in Paris?
2011.04.10 pm 11:04, Girl C: oh good. that's romantic
2011.04.10 pm 11:14, you : yes, this will be most romantic moment in your life. don't meet any guys before this moment~
2011.04.10 pm 11:17, Girl C: ok. you should not meet woman. are you okay?^^
2011.04.10 pm 11:21, you : ok, i will not even meet my mother and grandmother
2011.04.10 pm 11:23, Girl C: nono, i'll let you do that. i'm not bad girl.^^
2011.04.10 pm 11:33, you : sure, you are not bad girl, you are the most perfect woman in the world. can i get your photo with signature?
2011.04.10 pm 11:36, Girl C: oh, it's very rare...
2011.04.10 pm 11:44, you : yes even more rare then flying pig
2011.04.10 pm 11:48, Girl C: but i'll give you my photo with signature. you are so special.

2011.04.11
2011.04.11 am 12:30, you : i am your most special guy. give me your special photo

2011.04.11 pm 04:47, Girl C: ok^^
2011.04.11 pm 06:24, you : ok^^ you are so kind! please be so kind and let me take this photo myself! I already have perfect scenario for this special photo!
2011.04.11 pm 06:26, Girl C: i expect perfect scenario! ^^
2011.04.11 pm 06:33, you : sure! i spent all night making this scenario! it will be thrilling adventure!
2011.04.11 pm 06:35, Girl C: um.... is it sweet scenario?^^
2011.04.11 pm 06:52, you : yes, bitter-sweet with the taste of nature! but it is private! you must promise no to tell anyone!
2011.04.11 pm 06:54, Girl C: oh, is it private? why??
2011.04.11 pm 06:57, you : this photo should be only for me! i will show it only to my grandchilds
2011.04.11 pm 07:02, Girl C: oh, your grandchilds will fall in love.
2011.04.11 pm 07:05, you : absolutely! from such wild and thrilling masterpiece!
2011.04.11 pm 07:06, Girl C: um .. sorry, what is mean? ^^
2011.04.11 pm 07:13, you : "is" means "to be"
2011.04.11 pm 07:19, Girl C: from now on, let's speak in Korean!! kkk
2011.04.11 pm 07:22, you : you wish to teach me Korean right now? but soon my equipment for the photo will become bad:(
2011.04.11 pm 07:25, Girl C: ^^ if you want, i become a 'only' your Korean teacher .
2011.04.11 pm 08:17, you : 'only'? but then you have to pass certain tests. first, what is your TOEIC score?
2011.04.11 pm 08:20, Girl C: oh... i have low score ... 850 .......
2011.04.11 pm 08:21, you : hm... and what benefits as my 'only' Korean teacher do you have?
2011.04.11 pm 08:26, Girl C: i don't get angry!! it's important thing. and.. if you learn korean well, you can take a special rocket.^^*
2011.04.11 pm 08:42, you : never get angry? that's great! i need such teacher, cause i want also invite 3 Top models for Korean courses
2011.04.11 pm 08:43, Girl C: 3 top models?
2011.04.11 pm 08:47, you : maybe 13 - i am not sure yet... of course, they are not perfect women but very sexy.
2011.04.11 pm 08:48, Girl C: oh, do you like sexy girl?
2011.04.11 pm 08:49, you : no i am like sexy man!
2011.04.11 pm 08:50, Girl C: ohohoh, me too.
2011.04.11 pm 08:53, you : hm, i thought you are woman:( when i met you, you looked absolutely like a woman!
2011.04.11 pm 08:55, Girl C: how was my first impression? ??
2011.04.11 pm 08:57, you : your first impression about me? well,maybe, you thought that i am too handsome to meet with you?!
2011.04.11 pm 08:59, Girl C: ... ok! you are handsome guy!!!
2011.04.11 pm 09:02, you : if i am too handsome for you, then i will wear a helmet for our date
2011.04.11 pm 09:04, Girl C: no.... you don't need to wear a helmet...^^
2011.04.11 pm 09:14, you : ok. picnic for today is over. i have to pour my cactus. message me tomorrow!
2011.04.11 pm 09:15, Girl C: bye~

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TRYING TO IMAGINE SUBTEXT FROM REALLY GORGEOUS GIRL POPULAR AMONG COOL GUYS:
2011.04.08 am 09:22, you : no, it was very funny! did you really understand me?
HE IS HAPPY EVEN IF I SEND HIM "NO" - OK, I WILL PREPARE A PLACE FOR YOU AT MY FANS LINE...

2011.04.08 am 09:24, Girl C: yes!! your pronunciation(?) is good!!
HE CAN ALSO HELP TO IMPROVE MY ENGLISH - I WANNA SAVE HIM

2011.04.08 am 09:57, you : thank you, perfect woman;)
HE TRIES TO BE FUNNY OR ALREADY WANTS ME TOO MUCH?!

2011.04.10 am 10:18, you : do you know how is a perfect woman with rocket being?
OR MY CLOWN STARTED TO JOKE FROM THE MORNING - MAYBE I WILL ANSWER HIM AFTER I'LL FINISH MEETING WITH SOME COOL GUYS

2011.04.10 pm 07:03, Girl C: now i saw a message
OK, NOW I WANT TO HEAR SOME JOKES - ENTERTAIN ME!

2011.04.10 pm 07:44, Girl C: no,before 2015 ^^
I THINK 4 YEARS OF YOUR JOKES WILL BE ABSOLUTELY ENOUGH FOR ME!

2011.04.10 pm 11:21, you : ok, i will not even meet my mother and grandmother
I SEE - YOU JUST DON'T HAVE A CHANCE TO MEET ANY WOMAN - CLOWN

2011.04.10 pm 11:33, you : sure, you are not bad girl, you are the most perfect woman in the world. can i get your photo with signature?
SO LONG AND FUNNY... HE IS MY REAL FAN!

2011.04.11 am 12:30, you : i am your most special guy. give me your special photo
I SEE... ONE MORE PHOTO MASTURBATOR AMONG MY FANS...

2011.04.11 pm 06:24, you : ok^^ you are so kind! please be so kind and let me take this photo myself! I already have perfect scenario for this special photo!
THE DAY BEGAN WITH A NEW LONG JOKE...

2011.04.11 pm 06:57, you : this photo should be only for me! i will show it only to my grandchilds
GRANDCHILDS? HA-HA! HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY REAL SCENARIO - JUST WANTS TO MEET ME

2011.04.11 pm 07:13, you : "is" means "to be"
JOKE OR HE TEACHES ME? I AM TIRED...

2011.04.11 pm 07:22, you : you wish to teach me Korean right now? but soon my equipment for the photo will become bad:(
HE WANTS TO TELL ME HIS PREPARED JOKE ABOUT SCENARIO - I'D BETTER TO HEAR SOMETHING FRESH

2011.04.11 pm 08:17, you : 'only'? but then you have to pass certain tests. first, what is your TOEIC score?
TESTS? COME ON! I WILL NOT PLAY YOUR GAME!

2011.04.11 pm 08:49, you : no i am like sexy man!
ONE MORE PLAY WITH ENGLISH WORDS - REAL TEACHER~~~

2011.04.11 pm 08:57, you : your first impression about me? well,maybe, you thought that i am too handsome to meet with you?!
HE REALLY WANTS TO HEAR SOMETHING SWEET FROM ME - OK...

2011.04.11 pm 09:04, Girl C: no.... you don't need to wear a helmet...^^
YOU ARE NOT SO HANDSOME AND COOL GUY AS YOU WANT TO BE...

2011.04.11 pm 09:14, you : ok. picnic for today is over. i have to pour my cactus. message me tomorrow!
GREAT! I AM ALREADY TIRED! MAYBE, I NEED A REST FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS FROM THIS CLOWN...

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I think my fault was that I act really similar to dancing monkey - not enough cocky - she felt comfortable and I even couldn't make her angry:((
TENSION IS NECESSARY WITH HOT GIRLS~!

Serious conversation [reposted]

Chatting with one girl today. Almost all my messages were unserious, but she sincerely explained what she had been thinking about that. Probably it was a tricky humour from her side?

2011.04.11 am 08:47, Girl* : Have a good day~!**
2011.04.11 am 09:00, you : hi, nice weather isn't it?)
2011.04.11 am 09:01, Girl* : Yeah spring~!^.^*
2011.04.11 am 09:04, you : there are so many lovers appearing on the streets in russia at spring
2011.04.11 am 09:08, Girl* : yes so are here, i saw so many couples on the street and cafe
2011.04.11 am 09:21, you : hm, they must be some special dating cafes, so far i have seen just a few couples
2011.04.11 am 09:35, Girl* : I've never visited russia at spring so i can't know totally ur meaning
2011.04.11 am 09:39, you : ...couples are everywhere - walk hugging on the streets, kissing on the subway elevators, having sex in the cars...
2011.04.11 am 09:42, Girl* : Um.. I see so u dissatisfied these couples here? Haha
2011.04.11 am 09:45, you : i just always think they are not couples bit sister-brothers hehe
2011.04.11 am 09:48, Girl* : I understand u but here is Korea, it's different with western culture, u need to learn Korean culture to understand ours
2011.04.11 am 11:03, you : sure, i already started learning korean and eating kimchi!)
2011.04.11 am 11:14, Girl* : Good! Ur first start is nice! And if u want to understand cultures or ppl natural, u need to use various materials like book, broadcast and so many conversation with them. And also should have open mind **
2011.04.11 am 11:21, you : yeah! i will go today to the library, take a few books there and start learning!
2011.04.11 am 11:36, Girl* : I've never gone to other europe countries except only france. So i didn't have any chance to talk with them directly, and i also need to learn about their thinkings, cultures and so on. But i think difference is also that include person's characters and complex home backgrounds
2011.04.11 pm 12:43, you : wow, i am really impressed by your amazing english! you learn fast!)
2011.04.11 pm 01:01, Girl* : It's just same before, i think my eng writting is more clear than speaking and when i want to talk about something truly, my talking will become longer, that's all ;-)
2011.04.11 pm 03:40, you : u r so interesting interlocutor! lets meet and talk about ancient history, classical music and famous paintings!
2011.04.11 pm 04:00, Girl* : Are u interested in as above? I don't know well them, just know simple things about those but i enjoy them and just feel good. Seeing art movies, listening classic music or chanson and reading books are part of my life

Trying to play funny&cocky comedy with young&funny girl

Girl E - pretty face, young, smiling, active, cute ~ 6-7

We met the Girl E with boring & ugly girl friend at a big shopping center. Girl E was very funny and smiled a lot and had a painter set.

First we told "HI!" and asked where is ABC MART. Then where are you going, what is it and so on... Tim made many jokes (first, he started that we are from England) - Girl E were extremely funny! Finally, she wrote first:

2011.04.10

2011.04.10 pm 10:25, Girl E : sorry i forget ABC MART is closed

2011.04.10 pm 11:17, you : it was so bad of you. i trusted you, now you should buy cool shoes for me

2011.04.10 pm 11:23, Girl E : i'm so sorry ....you can buy it ak plaza

2011.04.11

2011.04.11 pm 12:14, you : hi~ how are you?

2011.04.11 pm 12:32, Girl E : hi~~I'm in school now

2011.04.11 pm 12:37, you : oh, at school? i know - you are studying ABC MART schedules

2011.04.11 pm 12:56, Girl E : how do you know~?!:D you are funny!!

2011.04.11 pm 12:59, you : what will you do for me if i say how did i know it?

2011.04.11 pm 01:11, Girl E : damn!! sorry i am not rich......

2011.04.11 pm 01:21, you : oh, i didn't know you are absolutely not rich. but i can help - i have a new pair of shoes! 290 size - it should exactly fit your leg

2011.04.11 pm 02:06, Girl E : well, can you buy a new pair of shoes for me?!

2011.04.11 pm 02:15, you : of course i can buy a new pair of shoes for you! it will cost just 2304 man won for you

2011.04.11 pm 02:22, Girl E : what is 2304 man won?

2011.04.11 pm 02:22, Girl E : how much is it ?

2011.04.11 pm 02:30, you : you have not yet studied large numbers at school? well, then it is about just 15 small Louis Vuitton bags

2011.04.11 pm 02:41, Girl E : i'm just joking.... i learn about "differentical calculus" in math class now do you know?

2011.04.11 pm 02:59, you : i was always scared of girls who understand "lim" and especially "dx/dt" meanings

2011.04.11 pm 03:08, Girl E : you know "lim"???? wow~ it is suprise for me

2011.04.11 pm 03:24, you : i am so surprising for you as a big fat dirty pig with cute pink ears

2011.04.11 pm 03:52, Girl E : what do you mean??

you mean i'm looks like a big fat dirty pig ????

2011.04.11 pm 04:45, you : you mean you look like fat dirty pig? no its too soft for you! you are dirty hungry angry crazy lobster cooked in chili sauce! yammi!

2011.04.11 pm 06:16, Girl E : Which team you like??

2011.04.11 pm 06:18, Girl E : Imean EPL

2011.04.11 pm 07:02, you : i don't like team. i like women

2011.04.11 pm 07:07, Girl E : i like woman too

2011.04.11 pm 07:17, you : sure, you are like woman! sometimes i even think that you are real woman!

2011.04.11 pm 07:27, Girl E : anyway how old are you?

2011.04.11 pm 07:32, you : i am too young! even younger then 50!

2011.04.11 pm 07:39, Girl E : and even younger then 30?

2011.04.11 pm 07:47, you : you are so interested in my age… anyway i am not ready for marrage yet!

2011.04.11 pm 07:48, Girl E : you looks like over 30

2011.04.11 pm 07:53, you : no no, please, don't push me to think about marriage!

2011.04.11 pm 07:56, Girl E : ok..sorry how long did you live in korea?

2011.04.11 pm 08:14, you : long enough to understand if you write me: // I want to meet very fast in Korean //

2011.04.11 pm 08:17, Girl E : 한국말 할줄아네??

2011.04.11 pm 08:20, you : i can understand only sweet words from you

2011.04.11 pm 08:25, Girl E : sweet word: 찌질이 // geek in Korean //

2011.04.11 pm 08:44, you : do you call me already lover?? i like this word, but first i should at least know your grandmother!

2011.04.11 pm 09:25, Girl E : you have to study more korean

Maybe, I lost some fun at the end of communication?! How to build connection through funny&cocky game with such young girls? Maybe increasing funny and decreasing cocky? But what about tension? Without it I will just walk with her, smile and enjoy sky...

Nothing special.

Today wanted a girl so much that decided to take out one girl and invite her to my home. She didn't pick up my call.
So I decided to call another girl whom I haven't called for a month or so. I told her to wear exciting clothes (she never did it before actually;)
- exciting cloth? for what?
- for me!!!
- i don't understand
I had to call her and explain. When I saw her she was wonderful - first time she wore black tights, dress (like granny's one, but anyway!) and looked fresh. In the car she asked:
- Where are we going? To Taco?
- No, at my home.
- Really???
- Yep.

I made a few cocktails and in half an hour I was taking her dress off.

In the evening, 6h later, retarding girl who didn't answer me today (first one) wrote:
- Misha, u called me at daytime? I'm coming back home now
- no
- Ok my phone is strange, good night~!
- i read in the scientific magazine today that things usually behave like owners
- What's mean? Things mean like phone stuff?
- good night^^

Trying to find the peak point to make an appointment by voice call while messaging with one hot Girl C.

I met Girl C in the cosmetics shop, asked is my face clean (I was eating Hamburger when I came to her=), asked where she studies and phone number...

Girl C: hot girl, rather tall, 7-8

2011.04.02

2011.04.02 pm 09:02, you : thank you - my friends were kidding that my face is totally dirty^^

2011.04.02 pm 09:40, Girl C : really? ^^

2011.04.02 pm 09:40, you : no, just kidding;)

2011.04.02 pm 09:43, Girl C : i meet my friend. so i can't send message. now. ^^

2011.04.02 pm 09:47, you : oh, poor girl~ very angry friend!! please let me know if he would be bad guy^^

2011.04.02 pm 09:51, Girl C : ^^ see you next time!! sorry!!^^

2011.04.02 pm 11:25, Girl C : what are you doing??

2011.04.03

2011.04.03 am 12:01, you : we are playing poker with friends~ and you?

2011.04.03 am 12:13, Girl C : I'm watching TV . Are you foreign student?

2011.04.03 am 12:18, you : you mean i look so young^^ thanks, but i am already big guy and should work:( i am engineer in Samsung

2011.04.03 am 12:21, Girl C : wow!! I'm really surprised!!!

2011.04.03 am 12:22, you : no I am not so old for you to be surprised;)

2011.04.03 am 12:25, Girl C : ^^ it's time to sleep ㅠ ㅠ

2011.04.03 am 12:26, you : oh, i forgot that you are very young girl;) have a sweet dreams^^

2011.04.03 am 12:26, Girl C : good night ^^

2011.04.04

2011.04.04 pm 03:06, you : hi~ how are you?

2011.04.04 pm 03:17, Girl C : I'm tired ㅠ I'm studying in school ㅠㅠ

2011.04.04 pm 03:46, you : do you want me to make massage for you? sorry - i am busy today~

2011.04.04 pm 03:55, Girl C : ok.. fighting! have a nice day ^^

2011.04.04 pm 03:59, you : i am not sure that fighting with me would be interesting - i am muai thai boxer~ how about to compete in cooking?

2011.04.04 pm 04:07, Girl C : hahaha cooking? i'm a good cook ^^

2011.04.04 pm 04:09, you : ok, what's your best dish?

2011.04.04 pm 04:10, Girl C : korean foods ^^ do you like korean food?

2011.04.04 pm 04:11, you : why not? just i don't like spucy food... and can you cook something sweet like rice cake or brownie?!

2011.04.04 pm 04:12, Girl C : of course!!

2011.04.04 pm 04:13, Girl C : of cours

2011.04.04 pm 04:13, you : great! and i can cook wonderful soup or meet~

2011.04.04 pm 04:16, you : *meat

2011.04.04 pm 04:16, Girl C : wow i love meat!!!!!

2011.04.04 pm 04:17, you : oh, predatory girl;)

2011.04.04 pm 04:19, Girl C : nonono~~~^^

2011.04.04 pm 04:20, you : ok, i believe you~~ and is chicken a meat for Jihee?! cause yesterday i invented a new meal: fried chicken in soy souce without any oil~

2011.04.04 pm 04:22, Girl C : i think it's tasty! is it delicious????

2011.04.04 pm 04:23, you : i don't cook not delicious food^^

2011.04.04 pm 04:26, Girl C : ^^ hungry. .. i can't eat Lunch

2011.04.04 pm 04:33, you : tired and hungry girl - maybe today it's better not to meet you^^

2011.04.04 pm 04:36, Girl C : yes ,today is not good. ^^;;;;;

2011.04.04 pm 04:37, you : how about tomorrow evening?

2011.04.04 pm 04:40, Girl C : sorry, i already have appointment

2011.04.04 pm 04:42, you : then you can cancel it;)

2011.04.04 pm 04:44, Girl C : oh, i can't. kkk

2011.04.04 pm 04:47, you : ok, then you should cook bigger brownie till the date we'll meet^^

2011.04.04 pm 04:57, Girl C : ok, if i am not busy, i try it^^

2011.04.06

2011.04.06 am 08:43, you : good morning^^

2011.04.06 am 10:03, Girl C : oh,good morning~~

2011.04.06 am 11:52, you : oh oh oh oh, good morning!

2011.04.06 am 11:57, Girl C : kk i overslept ...

2011.04.06 pm 12:15, you : yes, you had so wonderful night dreams that you didn't wish to come back to your boring life~

2011.04.06 pm 12:20, Girl C : yes, i think so . are you working now?

2011.04.06 pm 12:58, you : yes, i am working now to make your life not so boring;)

2011.04.06 pm 01:10, Girl C : thanks for any joke(?)~~

2011.04.06 pm 01:26, you : np;) but what do you think is more important in relationship: trust or understanding?

2011.04.06 pm 01:29, Girl C : um.

2011.04.06 pm 01:29, Girl C : .trust

2011.04.06 pm 01:29, you : I understand you!

2011.04.06 pm 01:37, Girl C : do you think that understanding is more important?

2011.04.06 pm 01:42, you : i never argue with woman, even overslept woman;)

2011.04.06 pm 02:34, Girl C : kk you are gentle guy kkk

2011.04.06 pm 03:27, you : it sounds like you wanna invite me to museum^^

2011.04.06 pm 03:31, Girl C : museum?

2011.04.06 pm 03:44, you : yes, museum - it is a place with masterpieces, sculptures, ancient things and many gentle men!

2011.04.06 pm 03:48, Girl C : ok,i understand~ when did you came korea?

2011.04.06 pm 04:00, you : quite enough to understand if you write "우리 빨리 보자"^^ // I want to meet you right now //

2011.04.06 pm 04:28, Girl C : oh!! can you speak korean???????

2011.04.06 pm 04:31, you : i think i could understand sweet words from you;)

2011.04.06 pm 04:36, Girl C : you know '좋아해' // like // ?

2011.04.06 pm 06:46, you : 날 좋아해? // You like me? // Thank you! Work finished! Pooh!! Today I worked so good that tomorrow i want to spend my work time in idleness^^

2011.04.06 pm 07:07, Girl C : envy you ~~ i'm in bus. there are many people..

2011.04.06 pm 07:24, you : did you take sweaty and smelly bus with crazy driver?

2011.04.06 pm 07:25, Girl C : yes!! and no seat ...

2011.04.06 pm 07:28, you : oh, then come out of this hell immediately and catch a helicopter!

2011.04.06 pm 07:30, Girl C : Kkkk please catch a rocket

2011.04.06 pm 07:31, Girl C : Kkkk please catch a rocket

2011.04.06 pm 07:36, you : oh, romantic girl^^ you wanna fly by rocket with me? maybe later - now i enjoy driving my car~

2011.04.06 pm 07:46, Girl C : oh, i can't drive ...teach me^^

2011.04.06 pm 07:50, you : ok, if you first teach me rocket driving~

2011.04.06 pm 07:52, Girl C : kkk i wanna be a perfect woman. then i can buy rocket

2011.04.06 pm 07:59, you : you need my help here also, otherwise you'd buy pink, small, cute but with broken engine^^

2011.04.06 pm 08:12, Girl C : i arrive my sweet home!!! i'll eat dinner ^^

2011.04.06 pm 11:41, you : good night~

2011.04.07

2011.04.07 am 08:27, Girl C : good morning~~^^

2011.04.07 am 08:30, you : wow you think about me in the morning? did you see me in a dream?

2011.04.07 am 08:36, Girl C : i try to see you in today's dream.^^

2011.04.07 am 08:45, you : sorry, today i am busy - i should visit my mother and grandmother dreams~

2011.04.07 am 08:50, Girl C : then i mm

2011.04.07 am 08:51, Girl C : i

2011.04.07 am 08:51, Girl C : how about. tomorrow dream? kk

So is it the peak point? Is it a good idea stop answering here and then call in the comfortable time and make an appointment?

Changing outer behaviour.

Interesting thing is to observe how your inner beliefs change your outer behaviour and feelings.
Some time ago I really put an eye on one girl, but I behaved so wussy with her, even when we were at Igor's apt.
After that I did some inner work so I understood my mistakes (pointed out by Tim) such as:
- moving focus on entertaining her instead of me
- forgiving unforgivable things
It's interesting, but this small change made me feel totally different to her! I don't want to call or even meet her now, as I understand that it will be boring for me if I start behaving differently with her from now on.

Wrong goal.

I think we need to work out our behaviour in terms of our goals. I will explain you what I mean as this is very important topic for me.
For a long time (and even now sometimes) I behave myself with the girls as if I have the ultimate goal "I need sex". And I am behaving and acting as if this goal is number 1 for me. Actually this is a big delusion. If we are acting like we need only sex, we become unnatural and girls will figure that out in the end, it's just a matter of time. The issue is here that girls NEVER GIVE sex to men who want only sex. So this is a wrong goal for us.
We need to learn being natural and rework on our goals. Having sex is very good, but it should not be a main goal, it should not be even in top-3 of your life goal's list I think.

The actions I see to work on this issue are following:
- stop MB
- stop behaving like you arrived from the planet where there were no girls at all, don't use your head like a radar searching for a pretty girls 24h per day, just be more self-collected. Always keep quite narrow focus only in front of you if you are going somewhere, so you would never miss a girl which can appear in your focus area
- find your real goals, which will be useful for yourself. Work on them!

What else?

No hook from her answer...

How about ideas to make creative cocky&funny discussion in case of her straight answers?

E.g. me:

- good morning^^

- oh, good morning~~

Messaging with one girl (Girl A) and later her friend (Girl B):

Girl A - young, cute, tooth braces, 5-6

Girl B - young, cute, 6,5

Girl A:

- Hi

R u busy this sunday?~~~

Me:

- why?

- go to the picnic Together

- and whom else did you invite?

- Girl B Said

You and I and Girl B.

Girl B' friend and Tim and carl

- do you like Karl?

- Yes like you too. we are friend~~~~~~~~~~

- are you man mood girl who tries to find friend between men?

- What???

What's mean

- maybe you feel yourself like a man?

- I'm girl

- crazy girl who treats men like friend?

- I don't understand

You said

anyway R u free this sunday

- how did you make me free this Sunday?

- // SOMETHING IN KOREAN

- do you already call me for private date with you? i am not sure that i am ready...

- Are you kidding???

Oh my god

- i am not your god!!!

- // SOMETHING IN KOREAN

- are you so bad girl that I could be God for you?

- What r u doing

- I know that you want to go my home, but I know you not enough for it...

- Delude yourself

- Do you think that I know you already enough?? I am not sure...

- No I don't think

- ok, i believe you, bad girl^^

- What?

I don't understand all you said!!!!!

Why I'm bad girl??????

- do you want me to teach you english?

- You learn Korean!

to tim

- yes he teaches me, so if you write "//I want to me you right now in Korean//" then i will understand it

- Is that teach tim?

- yes, he told that's good if girl will write it to me, fo you prefer to use more sweet words?

- Igor hi. I'm Girl B

- oh, do you also want to write me sweet words?! and how about Tim??

- Tim? Tim is Russian bear!

I don't want to your sweet word

- ok, you shouldn't afraid of Russian bear - i'll explain everything to him;)

- That's Tim say me.

- did Tim calls me Russian bear?

- No Tim is russian bear

Himself

- for Girl A also?

- Um????

Tim say himself Russian bear

- I think he tells this only to bad girls;) i never heard it from him...

- Tim say me "you are bad girl but Girl A os kind"

- kind is so boring:((

- Girl A is kind girl but very exciting!!

- how does bad girl know this? did you see excited Girl A?!

- Girl A is always exciting

Very very cute girl

- really? i thought she has problems - she told me that she considers men like just friends

- I don't know Girl A's thinking~ igor like Girl A???

- no Igor is a man he can't be like a girl!

- Who are you

- I am Igor

- You like man?

- No I like woman!

- What the hell are you talking about!

- I think you are too excited like Girl A, bad girl;)

- I have more exciting and bad then Girl A

- why are you telling this to me? do you want to excite me??

- No~ only tim not igor

- i am really glad to hear it^^ but in this case you mean that Girl A asked you to excite me?

- Are you exciting??

- how could i be excited from the girl who likes my friend or her friend who considers men like just friends??

- Igor like girl really

- yes Igor likes girls, because he is a man

- Ohhhhhh. Where are you

- no no, i can't invite you to my home!

and i live in secret place!

- Well, do as you like

- What will you do?? how did you know what i like, bad girl?!

- ????????

- i think you need a rest - and it is already sleeping time for small girls! // it was 10.30 pm

- Igor is small boy too

Good night igor byebye

Tima's Saturday idea

While playing with a girl (e.g. messaging) it's great to stop at the most approaching moment.

When you feel that she is really intersted in you just stop at this peak.

And the next day call her and make a date extremely serious without any jokes.

If she would be not ready to meet don't argue (save the ball inside your hands), just wish her a good luck.

Later the game will be continued....