Chatting with one girl today. Almost all my messages were unserious, but she sincerely explained what she had been thinking about that. Probably it was a tricky humour from her side?
2011.04.11 am 08:47, Girl* : Have a good day~!**
2011.04.11 am 09:00, you : hi, nice weather isn't it?)
2011.04.11 am 09:01, Girl* : Yeah spring~!^.^*
2011.04.11 am 09:04, you : there are so many lovers appearing on the streets in russia at spring
2011.04.11 am 09:08, Girl* : yes so are here, i saw so many couples on the street and cafe
2011.04.11 am 09:21, you : hm, they must be some special dating cafes, so far i have seen just a few couples
2011.04.11 am 09:35, Girl* : I've never visited russia at spring so i can't know totally ur meaning
2011.04.11 am 09:39, you : ...couples are everywhere - walk hugging on the streets, kissing on the subway elevators, having sex in the cars...
2011.04.11 am 09:42, Girl* : Um.. I see so u dissatisfied these couples here? Haha
2011.04.11 am 09:45, you : i just always think they are not couples bit sister-brothers hehe
2011.04.11 am 09:48, Girl* : I understand u but here is Korea, it's different with western culture, u need to learn Korean culture to understand ours
2011.04.11 am 11:03, you : sure, i already started learning korean and eating kimchi!)
2011.04.11 am 11:14, Girl* : Good! Ur first start is nice! And if u want to understand cultures or ppl natural, u need to use various materials like book, broadcast and so many conversation with them. And also should have open mind **
2011.04.11 am 11:21, you : yeah! i will go today to the library, take a few books there and start learning!
2011.04.11 am 11:36, Girl* : I've never gone to other europe countries except only france. So i didn't have any chance to talk with them directly, and i also need to learn about their thinkings, cultures and so on. But i think difference is also that include person's characters and complex home backgrounds
2011.04.11 pm 12:43, you : wow, i am really impressed by your amazing english! you learn fast!)
2011.04.11 pm 01:01, Girl* : It's just same before, i think my eng writting is more clear than speaking and when i want to talk about something truly, my talking will become longer, that's all ;-)
2011.04.11 pm 03:40, you : u r so interesting interlocutor! lets meet and talk about ancient history, classical music and famous paintings!
2011.04.11 pm 04:00, Girl* : Are u interested in as above? I don't know well them, just know simple things about those but i enjoy them and just feel good. Seeing art movies, listening classic music or chanson and reading books are part of my life
2011.04.11 am 08:47, Girl* : Have a good day~!**
2011.04.11 am 09:00, you : hi, nice weather isn't it?)
2011.04.11 am 09:01, Girl* : Yeah spring~!^.^*
2011.04.11 am 09:04, you : there are so many lovers appearing on the streets in russia at spring
2011.04.11 am 09:08, Girl* : yes so are here, i saw so many couples on the street and cafe
2011.04.11 am 09:21, you : hm, they must be some special dating cafes, so far i have seen just a few couples
2011.04.11 am 09:35, Girl* : I've never visited russia at spring so i can't know totally ur meaning
2011.04.11 am 09:39, you : ...couples are everywhere - walk hugging on the streets, kissing on the subway elevators, having sex in the cars...
2011.04.11 am 09:42, Girl* : Um.. I see so u dissatisfied these couples here? Haha
2011.04.11 am 09:45, you : i just always think they are not couples bit sister-brothers hehe
2011.04.11 am 09:48, Girl* : I understand u but here is Korea, it's different with western culture, u need to learn Korean culture to understand ours
2011.04.11 am 11:03, you : sure, i already started learning korean and eating kimchi!)
2011.04.11 am 11:14, Girl* : Good! Ur first start is nice! And if u want to understand cultures or ppl natural, u need to use various materials like book, broadcast and so many conversation with them. And also should have open mind **
2011.04.11 am 11:21, you : yeah! i will go today to the library, take a few books there and start learning!
2011.04.11 am 11:36, Girl* : I've never gone to other europe countries except only france. So i didn't have any chance to talk with them directly, and i also need to learn about their thinkings, cultures and so on. But i think difference is also that include person's characters and complex home backgrounds
2011.04.11 pm 12:43, you : wow, i am really impressed by your amazing english! you learn fast!)
2011.04.11 pm 01:01, Girl* : It's just same before, i think my eng writting is more clear than speaking and when i want to talk about something truly, my talking will become longer, that's all ;-)
2011.04.11 pm 03:40, you : u r so interesting interlocutor! lets meet and talk about ancient history, classical music and famous paintings!
2011.04.11 pm 04:00, Girl* : Are u interested in as above? I don't know well them, just know simple things about those but i enjoy them and just feel good. Seeing art movies, listening classic music or chanson and reading books are part of my life
2011.04.11 am 09:04, you : there are so many lovers appearing on the streets in russia at spring
ОтветитьУдалить(NOT FUR, HE BROUGHT LOVERS IN, NOW I SHOLD PLAY "UNDERSTANDING" BUT NOT IMPRESSED"
i brought this topic intensionally, as a small number of lovers in public places is a well-known fact, so i wanted to make fun of it.
2011.04.11 am 09:21, you : hm, they must be some special dating cafes, so far i have seen just a few couples
(HE IS NOT HAPPY ABOUT DATING IN KOREA, WHERE EVERYONE IS DATING,
WHY BROUGHT "SPECIAL"?, MAYBE HE IS "SPECIAL" AND CAN'T GET LAID
BUT I WILL PLAY NICE GIRL TO SEE HOW HE CRACKS MORE)
it was a joke - i said "special cafes" intensionally meaning that there is so a few number of kissing couples, that meeting them would mean that you meet them in some special place, like "special cafes for dating"
2011.04.11 am 09:39, you : ...couples are everywhere - walk hugging on the streets, kissing on the subway elevators, having sex in the cars...
(WOW, HE IS CRACKING, I DIDN'T EXPECT IT SO FAST!
HE BROUGHT UP KISS, SEX... _from tim: HE MUST HAVE SPERM IN HIS BRAIN_
I SEE BIG BIG WUSS SIGN, GOOD REASON TO NOT TO GIVE HIM SEX
AS LONG AS POSSIBLE AND MAKE FUN OF HIS PROBLEMS,
STILL PLAYING THE ROLE OF NICE AND UNDERSTANDING GIRL)
too much imagination. i just showed that i am not afraid of talking on sex-related topic, also showing her my reality which is totally different from korean's one
2011.04.11 am 09:45, you : i just always think they are not couples bit sister-brothers hehe
(OH, NOW HE IS TRYING TO DEFEND HIMSELF,
AS IF IT IS NOT HIS PROBLEM,
BUT OTHER PEOPLE PROBLEM,
SO SINCE I DONT WANNA LOOSE SUCH A TOY,
I WILL NOT MAKE ANY FUN OF HIM MORE AND
COME BACK TO NICE GIRL ROLE)
again it was a joke. the thing is that couples behave so shyly that you can call them relatives.
2011.04.11 am 11:03, you : sure, i already started learning korean and eating kimchi!)
(OK, NOW HE SEEMS MORE CALM, FOLLOWING ME LIKE LITTLE BOY,
EVEN TRYIED TO MAKE JOKE, NOT CONNECTED TO HIMSELF,
SO I SHOULD CHEER HIM UP A LITTLE)
it was a joke again: meaning that of course i will follow you but do it in another way, not like you want!
2011.04.11 am 11:21, you : yeah! i will go today to the library, take a few books there and start learning!
(NOW HE THINKS THAT HE IS BEING FUNNY,
I am!
2011.04.11 pm 12:43, you : wow, i am really impressed by your amazing english! you learn fast!)
(WOW I AM IMPROVING MY ENGLISH SKILLS, GOOD,
MAYBE SOMEDAY I CAN MEET SOME REALLY COOL GUY,
WHO WILL REALLY GIVE ME GOOD PLEASURE,
SO I SHOULD PRACTICE MORE)
joking at her talking (not taking seriously everything she was trying to tell me in details)
2011.04.11 pm 03:40, you : u r so interesting interlocutor! lets meet and talk about ancient history, classical music and famous paintings!
(NOW THIS IDIOT THINKS, THAT HE CAN GET ME INTERESTED......
this was again a joke about the situation itself! like wow you are so cool girl, lets talk about some paintings! she knows that i will not do that, so that was the point.
The issue with this exercise is that "hidden (sub-conscious) message" could be found in ANY message, even created by Mystery;) So I think it's better to be more objective/constructive and just try to find REAL holes in the messaging flows. I agree with only some comments (showing my holes), not with all of them.
ОтветитьУдалитьI meant not playing a role of a super-bitch, but just trying to analyze different sides of being attractive: for example, putting a score from 1 to 10 for each part: fun, cockyness, interest indicator, showing wussiness, wordiness, etc.
ОтветитьУдалитьSo in the end we can say which part was weaker, so next time we can improve it.