Girl G - Canadian girl, 28 years old, met at dating website, ~7 (by photoes)
2011.04.25
2011.04.25 am 09:19, you : hi Girl G~ how are you?
2011.04.25 am 10:56, Girl G : great thanks and you?
2011.04.25 am 11:28, you : good - i am working^^
2011.04.25 pm 12:46, Girl G : me too maybe we can talk later?
2011.04.25 pm 01:11, you : 100 percent, we can;)
2011.04.25 pm 01:35, Girl G : perfect i will talk to u later
2011.04.25 pm 01:45, you : wonderful, if i have time i will call u
2011.04.25 pm 02:57, Girl G : perfect what keeps you so busy?
2011.04.25 pm 03:35, you : secret
2011.04.25 pm 04:41, Girl G : oh oh a wife and three kids
2011.04.25 pm 04:42, you : very smart girl;) - three wifes and one kid
2011.04.25 pm 04:43, Girl G : you must be a busy man
2011.04.25 pm 04:53, you : yes, but since u really want, I'll find time to meet u this year
2011.04.25 pm 04:59, Girl G : this year?!! wow sir you are too good to me
2011.04.25 pm 05:03, you : i am too good to u, so i will wear a helmet for our date
2011.04.25 pm 05:31, Girl G : helmet?
2011.04.25 pm 06:23, you : did you hear about radioactive rain tomorrow?
2011.04.25 pm 06:26, Girl G : no i did not thank u for telling me wear your radioactive suit tomorrow
2011.04.25 pm 07:03, you : u want wear it? but it is just L man size. isn't it too small for you?
2011.04.25 pm 07:23, Girl G : i think you might be flattring yourself hehe
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2011.04.25 pm 04:41, Girl G : oh oh a wife and three kids
I STARTED TO PLAY, BUT ACTUALLY IT MEANS I AM A LITTLE BIT DISAPPOINTED OF YOUR PROUD AND DON'T WANT TO LOSE STATUS SO EASY
2011.04.25 pm 04:43, Girl G : you must be a busy man
YOUR JOKE WAS TOO TRIVIAL
2011.04.25 pm 04:59, Girl G : this year?!! wow sir you are too good to me
I DON'T WANT TO PLAY YOUR GAME - I AM HIGH STATUS
2011.04.25 pm 05:03, you : i am too good to u, so i will wear a helmet for our date
//! MY GREAT FAIL - I SHOULD CHANGE "to u" => "for u" OTHERWISE - OUT OF BLUE !//
2011.04.25 pm 06:26, Girl G : no i did not thank u for telling me wear your radioactive suit tomorrow
YOU WANT TO ENTERTAIN ME? AND I WANT TO LAUGH AT YOU
2011.04.25 pm 07:23, Girl G : i think you might be flattring yourself hehe
YOU PLAY NOT ENOUGH GOOD FOR ME
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What was bad:
I think fail with not changing "to u" => "for u" was really important - joke became out of blue and GEEKY.
I tried to play high status from the beginning but my cocky jokes didn't have sufficient soil.
Not enough fun in the beginning...
2011.04.25 pm 12:46, Girl G : me too maybe we can talk later?
ОтветитьУдалитьSTRONG MSG TO TAKE THE LEAD AND SHOW THE MAIN PERSON HERE
2011.04.25 pm 01:11, you : 100 percent, we can;)
100% SHOWING THAT YOU OBEY HER ((
2011.04.25 pm 01:35, Girl G : perfect i will talk to u later
2011.04.25 pm 01:45, you : wonderful, if i have time i will call u
TOO LATE MAN( SHE ALREADY TOOK THE LEAD, SOUNDS VERY IMMATURE WHEN YOU AGREED WITH HER AND THEN YOU TRIED TO BE A LEADER
2011.04.25 pm 02:57, Girl G : perfect what keeps you so busy?
YOU ALREADY EXCHANGED THE ROLES - NOW SHE IS TRYING TO PICK YOU UP (THIS QUESTION YOU HAD TO ASK INSTEAD OF "100 percent, we can;)"
2011.04.25 pm 03:35, you : secret
ОтветитьУдалить2011.04.25 pm 04:41, Girl G : oh oh a wife and three kids
OH, WE NEED TO LEARN HOW TO PICK UP FROM THIS GIRL!) SHE IS REALLY GOOD!
2011.04.25 pm 04:42, you : very smart girl;) - three wifes and one kid
BAD( YOU JUST REPEATED WHAT SHE SAID. ALT.: "YOU ALREADY SCARED? HEHE"
2011.04.25 pm 04:43, Girl G : you must be a busy man
SHE STILL GIVES YOU A CHANCE TO PLAY
2011.04.25 pm 04:53, you : yes, but since u really want, I'll find time to meet u this year
TOO ARROGANT( ALT.: "SURE, I HAVE TO FEED UP MY KIDS!"
SUMMARY: THIS GIRL REALLY KNOWS HOW TO PLAY!
2011.04.25 pm 02:57, Girl G : perfect what keeps you so busy?
ОтветитьУдалитьYOU ALREADY EXCHANGED THE ROLES - NOW SHE IS TRYING TO PICK YOU UP (THIS QUESTION YOU HAD TO ASK INSTEAD OF "100 percent, we can;)"
Is it bad that she started hunting for me?
2011.04.25 pm 04:42, you : very smart girl;) - three wifes and one kid
BAD( YOU JUST REPEATED WHAT SHE SAID. ALT.: "YOU ALREADY SCARED? HEHE"
I showed that I listened to her and added small plastic damn to my message like we trained with Tim - is it bad?
TOO ARROGANT( ALT.: "SURE, I HAVE TO FEED UP MY KIDS!"
Is it good idea? I will just entertain her like dancing monkey without being cocky, isn't it?!
>Is it bad that she started hunting for me?
ОтветитьУдалитьIt's not bad but I got a feeling that she is trying to be a leader... All the time before we have been practicing the way of leading girls by ourselves. Actually it can work like this also: pretending a guy who doesn't need a girl actually and she is trying to pick you up instead of you...
>I showed that I listened to her and added small >plastic damn to my message like we trained with >Tim - is it bad?
Sorry, right, didn't get it first.
>Is it good idea? I will just entertain her like >dancing monkey without being cocky, isn't it?!
Alt: "I have to entertain my wives and pour my cactus!" Actually this is also not very cocky... Could be a better solution.
Finally writing about something!
ОтветитьУдалитьAnyway yeah Tim is definitely right, western girls are much better at flirting and going back and forth with word play. I think this girl was hard for you to play with just because she was using perfect English....it seems like you can make simple word jokes with Korean girls and they'll play along either because they don't fully understand or they just don't play in the same way as westerners. With English speakers, you have to really think about your wordplay, and set up jokes in advance.
Carl, so was it harder for you to pick up the girls in US than here?
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